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Friday, October 28, 2011

Why Should I Marry You?


Why Should I Marry You?



Once there was a very handsome, pious, well educated young man, whose parents emphasised for him to get married. They had seen so many marriage proposals, and he had turned them all down. The parents thought it was becoming a little ridiculous or suspected that he may have someone else in mind.

However every time the parents left the girls house, the young man would always say ‘she’s not the one!’ The young man only wanted a girl who was religious and practicing, however one evening his mother arranged for him, to meet a girl, who was religious, and practicing.

On that evening, the young man, and girl, were left to talk, and ask each other questions. (As one would expect). The young man, being a gentleman that he was allowed, the lady to ask first.

The young girl asked the young man so many questions, she asked about his life, his education, his friends, his family, his habits, his hobbies, his lifestyle, his enjoyment, his pastime, his experiences, his shoe size..The young man replied to all of her questions, without tiring, and politely, with a smile the young girl took up nearly all of the time, over an hour, and felt bad, and asked the young man do you have any questions?

The young man said, it’s ok. I only have 3 questions…The young girl thought, wow, only 3 questions okay, shoot. The young man’s first question was, Who do you love the most in the world, someone who’s love nothing would ever overcome? She said, this is an easy question; my mother, he smiled.
Second question, he asked, you said that you read a lot of qur’an, could you tell me which surahs you know the meaning of? Hearing this she went red and embarrassed and said, I do not know the meaning of any yet, but I am hoping to soon insha’allah I’ve just been a bit busy. The third question the young man asked, was I have been approached for my hand in marriage, by girls that are a lot more prettier than you, why should I marry you? Hearing this the young girl was outraged, she stormed off to her parents with fury, and said I do not want to marry this man he is insulting my beauty, and intelligence. And the young man and his parents, were once again, left without an agreement of marriage.

This time, the young mans parents were really angry, and said what did you do to anger that girl, the family were so nice, and pleasant, and they were religious like you wanted. What did you ask the girl?? Tell us! The young man said, firstly I asked her, who do you love the most? she said, her mother. The parents said so, what is wrong with that?? The young man said, ‘no one, is Muslim, until he loves Allah, and his messenger (saw) more than anyone else in the world’. If a woman loves Allah and the Prophet (pbuh) more than anyone, she will love me and respect me, and stay faithful to me, because of that love, and fear for Allah (swt). And we can share this love, because this love is greater than lust for beauty. The young man said, then I asked her, you read a lot of qur’an, can you tell me the meaning of any surah? And she said no, because I haven’t had time yet. so I thought of that hadith ‘ALL humans, are dead except for those who have knowledge’ She has lived 20 years and not found ANY time, to seek knowledge, why would I marry a woman, who does not know her rights, and responsibilities, and what will she teach my children, except how to be negligent, because the woman IS the madrasa (school) and the best of teachers. And a woman who has no time for Allah, will not have time for her husband. The third question I asked her was, that a lot of girls, more prettier than her, had approached me for marriage, why should I choose you?..That is why she stormed off, getting angry. The young man’s parents said that is a horrible thing to say, why would you do such a thing, we are going back there to apologise. The young man said I said this on purpose, to test whether she could control her anger. The Prophet (saw) said ‘do not get angry, do not get angry, do not get angry’ when asked how to become pious; because anger is from Satan. If a woman cannot control her anger with a stranger she has just met,do you think she will be able to control it with her husband??


So, the moral of this story is, a marriage is based on:
Knowledge, not looks, Practice, not preaching, Forgiveness, not anger, Spiritual love, not lust And compromise.

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Monday, October 24, 2011

Burqa Banned in France



The French "Burqa Ban" STARTS TODAY
what kind of crime she did, so she must be dragged that way...?, what kind of crime she did so she should be put in Jail...?

Muslim women are not free any more in France, they lost their right to wear what they want :( they are banning our clothes too.. click on share button to spread the message!!


Is this what we call equality and Justice of Modern world?????
Which religion permits us to harass innocent people???

Save our pearls.... :'(

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Friday, October 07, 2011

Do we really lost an Icon???


Assalamu Alykum all..


Everyone is mourning and grieving for the loss of Apple founder STEVE JOBS...
Many Muslims are also joining the mass...
Indeed we have a visionary man..I have no doubt..
But..Remember that He was titled as a Visionary only for Technology aspect..
He may be the best in his field...We must not discuss the negative aspects of a dead person until it's seriously required...


But...
We muslims should never forget that...Alhamdulillah...Thumma Alhamdulillah...We have our own Inspirational Icon...
He is the BEST MAN ever on the face of this Earth..
No Human can ever compete his Gracefulness...
How much are we concerned about Him???
He was best in many aspects..
Most above of all..His Hiqmah [Wisdom] was far more advanced than combining all our wisdom together..I am not exaggerating His status..But notifing His glory which Allah has mentioned..


If we can respect Steve Jobs for his worldly achievements...Which can pay no benefits to our Aakhirah [Hereafter Life]


Then indeed...We are answerable for disrespecting our Beloved Prophet Muhammad [Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam]..The Greatest man ever on this earth...Whose achievements are legendary..Whose words can lead us to Jannah [Paradise]


Just saying we Love Him does not fulfill your responsibilities...But following and molding our lives according to his words [Insha Allah] will definitely lead us to real success..


"Verily in the messenger of Allah ye have a good example for him who have belief on  Allah and the Last Day, and remembers Allah much." [Surah Al-Ahzab; 33:21]

Our Icon..Inspiration...Leader..Teacher...is Indeed our Beloved Prophet Muhammad [Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam]..


Indeed, " The Knowledge of a Hypocrite is in Speech, While The Knowledge of Believer is in His Actions "


You judge your own life...Where you want to be??


Hell or Paradise????


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